Sometimes I think, did my mother really allow her daughter to get molested?
Sometimes I think, did she know the extent of the harm she was causing by allowing this to happen?
Sometimes I think, did she know she had inflicted permanent scars upon me the very day she found out and made silence her response?
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I remember the day I confronted her. We were in my stepdad’s office. We were glowering at each other. I had done something despicable to her, and I, stubbornly unapologetic, thought that moment opportune to turn it around on her.
I said, “Ma, did you know what [he] did to me?” I paused and tried to read the expression on her face. She gave nothing away yet. “Did you know he was touching me inappropriately back on the island?”
Her lips pursed, and she looked sideways, almost as if the memory could be found splattered on the wall or something. Then she looked back at me with searing eyes and said, “Maybe. I think so.”
I was rendered so numb by her answer that I forgot I was staring at her. It was like I blacked out with my eyes wide open.
All I could do was think back to all the little hints from my childhood that possibly implicated her:
When he would pick me up right in front of her and jokingly tell her I would have the body of a porn star when I got older … When he would keep asking me to give him a forehead massage right in front of her … When he would stay home while she would run errands …
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Sometimes it feels like a bad dream. But I knew it was reality as soon as I heard my mother confirm my worst fear. Screw her half-assed “maybe”. She knew. And over the course of my childhood, she let it happen.
Daily Post Prompt: Maybe